GIRL TALK…

There is nothing like a good gabfest with a good good girlfriend, nothing! Unfortunately, for the us (let’s call her Olivia) we live on opposite sides of the pond. However, the distance does not deteriorate our bond. No matter how long it’s been since our last visit or call we pick up right where we […]

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COFFEE WITH FRIENDS

Ahhhhhhh the importance of girlfriends. During this hellish process, some have left. But the ones who have stayed or just made their entrance into my life I am truly grateful to have you. Thank you. Today, I met up with one of these friends, let’s call her Lucy. I have known Lucy for ages but […]

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TRYING TO MOVE ON…

There is a saying if you love someone let them go… I am seriously starting to wonder if there was a little-known part that has been forgotten that goes something like this: If you hate them make them stay and torture them to no end! The x-hole has gone above and beyond the call of […]

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

I can’t believe it, tomorrow I turn the big 4-0! To know me is to know that I am the self proclaimed birthday QUEEN! I love birthdays, and not just mine, once I know your birthday it will be forever ingrained in my memory and I will do everything within my power to celebrate you […]

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WHAT’S IN A NAME?

I know I am putting the cart way before the horse here, but after finally winning a battle in the Divorce Wars, my mind has dared to dream of my freedom! Yes, freedom. I want to be free of this man, with every fiber of my being. Even though, I know I will not be […]

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THE SCALES OF (IN)JUSTICE

The last weeks have been brutal. I asked for my divorce in OCTOBER 2015 and I am still married to the x–hole! Yes, still married- not even separated. To say that the Swiss legal system is a labyrinth that I have yet to crack would be a gross understatement. I have consulted countless lawyers and […]

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THE STORM WITHIN…

I am ANGRY, there I said it! When you look at me you would never know that beneath my smile there is a slow rage that is about to boil over. I am angry for several reasons. I know it is easy to put the blame on someone else, but honestly I am most angry with […]

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